Since 2008, I’ve been creating a theme and focused objectives instead of a list of resolutions. Thanks to Laura Allen and Sharon Day! Click here to read the details – 2010 The Year of Absolute Yes.
In 2010, it was all about yes! Therefore, I had to say no to quite a few things, and, saying no is so very hard for me; thus, making 2010 a very tough year emotionally. Relationships were redefined, and some precious ones have even ended. Spending was curtailed to ensure that we get from under the debt as soon as possible. Huge sacrifices were made like I took on a part-time job for the last six months of the year to pay off a tax bill that appeared out of no where.
But then some really great things have happened too!
* I am an unashamed Christ follower! It was really hard to not be more vocal, and bold, about my faith as I watched time after time God literally pull us through a situation. There’s a lot I share in my blog, but not everything because some of it isn’t my stuff to share.
* By the grace of God, and the help of many friends holding me accountable, our debt bill has gone from $60,000 down to $20,000. I’ve truly learned the value of paying with cash, and living within my means. I’m still not 100% diligent about doing so, but I’m no longer spending in secret, and living in the condemnation of it all.
* With gifts from a friend, we were able to add a newer car to the family (welcome again, Kirk!).
* God in his kindness has seen fit to reunite me and my friend Thea. Thea and I were best friends for more than 16 years. We ended our friendship about 13 years ago over a variety of things that built up in our relationship that went without being spoken out of fear of losing a friend. It’s been awesome to have my friend back, and to work on having the hard (vulnerable) conversations that it takes to grow forever friends.
What a cool sag way into my theme for 2011. With all the changes that have gone on around, and in, me, I must prepare the for the opportunities ahead of me. So, 2011 is the Year of Opportunity. I’m keeping my eyes open, as I have great expectations for 2011!
